Psychoanalysis.  2024 Apr;35(2):22-28. 10.18529/psychoanal.2024.35.2.22.

Father in the Oedipus Complex, the Modern Value of ‘Hyo’ for His Countertransference: Based on Parent-Child Bonding (‘Buja Yuchin’)

• Kim K

• KMID: 2555681
• DOI: http://doi.org/10.18529/psychoanal.2024.35.2.22

Abstract

The Oedipus complex is a phenomenon observed in both Eastern and Western cultures. It involves a transition from a child’s early connection with their mother to a more complex relationship that includes the father. The interpretation of this period has evolved from Freud’s idea of the father acquiring a “super-ego” to a modern understanding of acquiring masculinity, autonomy from parental authority, and developing the capacity for other loving relationships. Successfully navigating the Oedipus period requires not just a father figure as a source of fear, but a father who is supportive and willing to make sacrifices for their child’s growth. It is im-portant to resolve any negative countertransference experienced by the father in this role, as it greatly influences the smooth com-pletion of this period. To address the countertransference that inevitably arises during the Oedipus period, religious and philosophical ideas can serve a role similar to that of a supervisor in the analysis process. However, applying Eastern religious and philosophical ideas, such as Confucianism (Yu-gyo), may be challenging due to their emphasis on vertical relationships. Fortunately, the concept of “hyo” holds promise for the future, as it embodies a principle of mutualism that can be applied in a modern context, despite its seemingly vertical foundation.

Keyword

Oedipus complex; Countertransference; Filial piety (‘Hyo’); Freud; Loewald