J Korean Soc Matern Child Health.  2023 Oct;27(4):247-255. 10.21896/jksmch.2023.27.4.247.

Maternal Experiences of Anger While Raising a Child

• Hwang JH
• Han SY
• Chae SM
• Kim MR

• KMID: 2547475
• DOI: http://doi.org/10.21896/jksmch.2023.27.4.247

Abstract

Purpose
This study aims to explore mothers’ experiences of anger while raising a child in South Korea based on a qualitative descriptive approach.
Methods
A total of ten mothers of children aged 1-3 years participated in the study. In-depth individual interviews were conducted from August to September 2019 to collect data, which were then subjected to thematic analysis.
Results
A total of 4 main themes and 10 subthemes were identified. The 4 themes were “individual and environmental factors that influence anger,” “a vicious cycle of anger expression and guilt,” “being a little bit more mature as a mother,” and “need for anger management.” This study described various causes, ways of expressing, and effects of anger, as well as the mother’s coping strategies. These experiences were viewed as milestones along the journey to becoming a real parent and helped mothers develop empathy for other children and mothers. The participants expressed support for expanding the social support system for child-rearing and providing psychological programs for mothers.
Conclusion
Mothers of children aged 1-3 years experienced anger owing to various factors, but adapted by developing coping skills. This study recommends family-based support interventions to help mothers manage their emotions and parenting roles.

Keyword

Mothers, Child, Anger, Qualitative research

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